Well, this past week was
the last week of practicum. I waited a
little bit longer than normal to write this one because I wanted to be sure to
get all of my time in Rwamagana into this post. So as I write this, I’m back swinging in the
hammock chairs on our compound in Kigali, listening to birds, music, and Aidah yelling.
Ahhh, it’s good to be home.
So when I last
recounted my life, I believe I left off on Monday, and had finished my
tree. I decided my goal for the week was
to have the library completely done for Saturday, which was Champions day, so
we could announce it then. We’ll see how
that went later…
Tuesday as I was
working in the library, the sound of a goat bleating was a bit deafening. More than the usual sound of goat one would
hear constantly in Rwamagana. As I was
thinking that Mikey came in- “We have a goat?” Wait, what? “There’s a goat
here!” Here? Like on the compound of the center? “Yeah, it’s up by the
classroom!” So we obviously took a walk
up there and Mikey proceeded to chase it around the compound. Just another day in Africa. I also went out for sports time, which was
basketball, and spent much of it playing 1 and a half on 1 of Shema (the three
year old who lives at the center because his mom, Sebina, lives and works there) and me against Edy. After that, the boarding boys had a parkour/gymnastics/pull-ups/whoknowswhat
time with the basketball hoop. Very impressive. Later that night, Mikey and I went to go
visit Jonathan and Jonas, the two German interns who are working at the Center
as well, at their house. We have a nice twenty
minute zombie apocalypse walk there, and once we got to the point where we were
supposed to call Jonathan and have them bring us the rest of the way from the
road to their house, we gave them a call.
But instead of a German teenage boy picking up and speaking English, we
got a Rwandan woman speaking Kinyarwanda. Darnit. Frustrated that we had made it so close but
didn’t know where else to go, we proceeded to ask people “Muzungu house?” in
hopes that someone knew where they lived.
Strangely enough, I heard “Allison!” and out of nowhere popped up Denny,
one of the catch-up kids, who led us to Jonas and Jonathan’s house. Yus. The four of us had a lovely time talking about the Center, Germany, America, and eating some
popcorn- and then getting talked to by drunk men at the gas station
supermarket. “Are you married? You are
small, be careful, you are small. I visit you.” Uhhhh... we just wanted
water. Thank goodness for Mikey’s presence…
Wednesday I worked more
in the library prepping it for completion.
I started sketching out the quote that I decided to paint on the wall to
tie together the grow tree and the library.
It’s by the author Joan Bauer and it reads: “We read to learn and to
grow, to laugh, to be motivated, and to understand things we've never been
exposed to. We read for strength to help us when we feel broken, discouraged or
afraid. We read to find hope.” I think
it fits the Center really well, and it’s also just great. So I decided to put it on the front wall, but
couldn’t decide how to do it. First, I measured
it out and wrote it in straight lines, but I couldn’t get all the letters to be
the right size, so I erased it. Then I wrote
it out in a semi-circle like fashion, but halfway through that proved to be
really frustrating, so I ditched that too.
I finally decided to just freehand it in a wavy fashion, so that it looked
cool AND if the letters weren’t exactly all the same size you wouldn’t really
be able to tell. So, that’s what I
decided on, but before I got to start, I helped Mikey out with painting the
classrooms. Like I said in my last post,
a new program was set to start up with 100 new students, but the classrooms
were nowhere near ready, so painting and prepping the rooms became the job of
Mikey and Rasta, a former Center for Champions boarder who Carrie hired for two
weeks to work with Mikey. While painting
white paint around chalkboards and window sills isn’t exactly as fun as
painting a colorful quote in the library, it was nice to have some human
interaction while I painted.
Thursday was just
another day at the center, and I started painting my quote and helped in the
classrooms too, since they needed to be done by Friday. In the evening, Mikey invited me along to go
visit Rasta at his house. I was going to
stay behind because I was tired and felt a bit like I was intruding since I
wasn’t invited by Rasta, but ended up going along. Rasta met us at the center, and we began the
trek to his house. It was rough terrain
and we didn’t really have a light, but thankfully the moon was so bright that
night and lit our path pretty well! Halfway to Rasta’s house we met up with his
best friend and roommate Imyani, and continued with him. On the walk there we tried asking Rasta some
questions like how long he was at the center, how long he’s been out, and how
long he’s been at his house, but he didn’t understand what we were asking. Mikey said that his English has really
improved after the two weeks he’s spend with him- he’s pretty good at
expressing his own thoughts, but he still has a lot of trouble understanding others. We got to his house, which was a very tiny
house connected to another house. He had
electricity but no lightbulb, so we lit a candle to see everything. They have one tiny room and then another as
their bedroom. They gave us a little
tour, which we got a video of, and Mikey gave Rasta and Imyani the shirt and
shorts he brought for them. They were so
excited and thankful, and we had a little photoshoot of them and their new
clothes. I think this is where the first
round of tears started, beginning with Rasta and Imyani and then spreading to
Mikey and myself. It was just so simple
and happy, while heartbreaking at the same time. Rasta then proceeded to tell us his story,
which was so difficult to hear. His
mother, father, and brother were all killed in the genocide, and Rasta was orphaned
at the age of four. He spent some time
in Uganda, and then returned to Kigali and lived as a street kid (I wish we
could have gotten more details about that, but the language barrier really
prevented it). While a street kid, he
was beaten and arrested, and eventually ended up in Rwamagana at the Center for
Champions, where he was a boarder and went through Catch-up school. After that, they sent him off for Mechanical
vocational training, which he didn’t want to do, and didn’t finish. He’s been in between short stints of labor
since then and living in this house with Imyani paid for with money God has
given to them. Hearing Rasta talk was
the most amazing thing ever. He has no
family left, but goes on to say that Imyani is his brother and all that he
needs. He said he used to cry and cry
but now “No fear, because God knows my life.”
To see someone who has lost so much and suffered so much in his life
talk about God like Rasta did, literally brought tears to my eyes. No fear, because God knows my life. How powerful is that?! And we fall apart when little things happen
and we can’t see God in them. He has
books filled with songs he wrote, and says that he imagines a Rwanda with peace
where rich and poor are all treated the same.
He views people by their hearts, saying if they have good or bad ones,
and tells us both that we have good hearts because we came here and calls us “inshuti”
or friend in Kinyarwanda. We stay for a
while and talk, and then eventually walk home, laughing to flatulence the whole
way home. By far my most amazing time so
far in Africa, and potentially in my life.
Friday, I finally
hunkered down and finished the library! Yesyesyesyesyes. Trying to race to get everything done before
we had to leave for dinner I said I felt like I was on Trading Spaces or
Extreme Makeover Home Edition or something where you’re racing to finish the
room before the time is up. Stressful,
but so great to finish! Mikey, Madi and
I also went to the market with Rasta so he could buy his radio, which he’s been
saving up for. Music means so much to
him, and after all he’s been through, it’s been something that he’s really
loved through it all. He was so excited
to buy it, and it was fun to be with him.
I also got the perfect shirt for my Waldo Halloween costume, which was
such a lucky find in the used clothing section of the market.
Saturday, we got to
sleep in for the first time ever. SO great.
Then, we had Champion’s Day in the afternoon. It was essentially a field day type event
arranged by Aleaha complete with relay races, Chubby Bunny, a talent show, a
message, and sambosas and fantas. Sadly, it’s the rainy season, so a rainstorm
threw a wrench into the plans. We couldn’t
have relay races outside, and we lost power so we started late, and the
catch-up kids got delayed by the rain.
But we made do, and had a fun day.
Mikey competed in Chubby Bunny, I did the egg on a spoon race, and Madi
did the cookie from forehead into mouth contest. I think the kids had a really fun day, and we
got to enjoy some amazing potato sambosas.
We got to announce that the library was finished, which was really
satisfying, and I apologized for the many times I couldn’t give the kids books
in the past and encouraged them to please read now that the library was
open! Yay! Sadly, the end of the day
took a turn for the worst. With leftover
Fantas and sabosas, boys were refusing to clean if they didn’t get seconds, and
were continually asking for more. Carrie
left us to give the leftover opened Fantas to the boarders, which was a rough
time. Mikey and I brought them into the
dorm and gave them directions of a line and one each, and they got back in line
to lie and have more than one, swarmed the soda, and were all around disrespectful.
We ended up angrily having to take the sodas away and lock them in the library,
and it was a bit of a sour end to say the least.
Sunday, we had church
and the rest of the day for ourselves. After
dinner, Nancy Drew, Watson, and Sherlock (Mikey, Madi, and I) went on our
secret spy mission and peeked in and watched a wedding reception at the center,
but when the bride looked over and saw us, we quickly scrambled to instead have
confiscated leftover Fantas in the library.
After some 100 franc greasy oily gas station supermarket donuts, we concluded
a good day.
Monday was our last
full day, and I spent it putting finishing touches on the library, playing
volleyball and basketball in the extra-long recess with the catch up kids, and
having our goodbyes with the boarders.
Carrie said some words, we got our Rwandan names (It wasn’t a good sign
that when Carrie asked what I should be named kids were asking what my real
name was…I can’t remember what mine was anyways…), the boys got to say things
to us, and we got to say something to them as a group. Mikey and I went into the cafeteria where
they were eating dinner after and got to joke with them and eat a little poshel
and beans, and then we went to our guesthouse to have our last supper and say
goodbye to the staff there. It was sad
to leave Amina, who took amazing care of us over the month, as she was very sad
to see us leave as well.
Tuesday we headed off,
after saying goodbye to the catch-up kids and Carrie, and getting surprised by
Aidah, our cook, picking us up in Rwamagana!
As we were leaving, I was sad to not be able to say goodbye to Rasta,
but thankfully there he was right as we left the gate. Happy surprise! We said goodbye, he touched our hearts saying
they were good, and we got out last hug and handshake in. Sadly, he told us that his house caught on
fire from the radio, which was heartbreaking.
But he was at peace with it, said his stuff was okay, and later we found
out he got hired to do some cooking at the AEE guest house where the nursing
girls stayed, which is what he wants to be doing. Again, he’s just such an amazing and sweet
guy, with a really sad story. But that
doesn’t define him, and he knows that. Very
sad to leave him, but hopefully we’ll be able to go back and visit him. We hopped into our bus, picked up the nursing
girls, and headed back to Kigali.
So here I am, safe and
sound and happy. So thankful for the
month and so glad to be back home. To
conclude, I wrote a little “Ode to Avega,” our guest house we stayed at. Below
are some pictures as well. Thanks to Mikey for the first picture and Aleaha for the next 5, and then the rest are all mine. Sending all
my love back to everyone!
Ode to Avega:
Thirty-one days
together we’ve spent
Let me try to capture
all that it’s lent
Our toilets had no
seats to sit
Though my bed quite was
a lovely fit
When we had water ‘twas
never hot, nor even warm
Except in my hot
chocolate every morn’
The checken sandwich
was simply superb
But it being different
every time was a bit absurd
Shower spouts at waist
level made me glum
I didn’t shower very
much at practicum
I’ll always remember
the nights outside getting internet from Avega East
I tried oatmeal for the
first time and thought yours was beast
Sweet Amina took
amazing care of us
I wish we could take
her home on our bus
The times we got cake
or apples on our fruit plates were the best
Trying to track down
our room keys after lunch put my searching skills to the test
Well Avega, I guess
this is goodbye
Saying I didn't enjoy my time here would be a lie.
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Shema and me. Yes. |
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Mikey and I. This kindof explains our practicum... |
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Alain, one of the boarders, displaying
his strength and parkour/gymnastics/
pullups/whoknowswhat skills. |
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Shema and Edy. So great. |
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Me and Mikey, while he
was competing in Chubby Bunny. |
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Some of the kids and boarders during champions day. |
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Baby goats! |
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Library sign I made with pages of books
that were already being thrown away |
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Finished! Textbooks and a bit of the
back wall. |
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Finished back wall! |
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Finished front wall! The quote I painted and library rules.
Left side Knight, right side me. His looks way better... |
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Finished! Right wall/back wall corner |
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Another shot of the finished library. |
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Ceremonial removal of the "Library under construction.
Will open November 2012" sign! |
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Mikey and Rasta |
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Madi, Mikey, Aleaha, and I with Amina and
the Avega Restaurant staff. |